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   Carol's Corner - April 2009

   By Carol Ziolo

Be Active – Take Time to Relax

Relaxation, in most people’s minds, is a passive process: you think of a pleasurable place, focus on your breathing, or meditate. It is possible, however, to take action to control tension.

A very simple technique called Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) involves actively tensing your muscles and then relaxing the same muscles. PMR gives you insight on the difference between a tense muscle and a completely relaxed one. If you practice the technique, you will learn to let go of tension that is caused by stress and anxiety earlier and establish a physical reaction that is associated with calmness (Richmond).

To use PMR, it is important to become familiar with the best setting for relaxation to occur. Sit in a chair in a quiet area and get comfortable. Put your feet on the floor and close your eyes. You may play soft instrumental music, but it is not necessary. Do not eat, drink, or smoke just prior to your relaxation session. Plan on 15-20 minutes for relaxation.

PMR is a two-step process. The first part involves the tensing of a major muscle group for approximately 10 seconds. It is important that you do not cause any pain to your muscles, just tightness. Of course, talk with your physician if you have any medical issues to get his/her approval for this exercise. Next, you will release all the induced tension. It is important to “feel” the relaxation take place and enjoy the quiet and restfulness for at least 10 seconds. Then, take a deep breath and continue to the next group of muscles.

The major muscle groups you will use in this two-step process are:

1. Feet/Legs (do one limb at a time)

• Raise your leg and pull toes towards you.

• Raise your leg and point toes away from you

• Let your foot rest on the floor when you release the tension

2. Arms/Hands (do one limb at a time)

• Make a tight fist

• Stretch your arms in front of you

• Relax and let your arms fall to your side

3. Abdomen/Chest

• Tighten your stomach muscles and then let go

• Pull your chest muscles towards your lungs and release

4. Neck/Shoulders

• Pull shoulder blades back and release

• Pull chin towards chest, but keep it from touching and release

5. Face

• Squeeze your eyes closed and then open

• Clench your teeth

• Squeeze your mouth and nose together

• Relax your face

Now, check your body for any tension you did not release during the release step. Check all your muscle groups for any remaining tension. Take a deep breath and release any tension that remains. Enjoy your relaxed body for a few moments. You may open your eyes when you are ready and stretch.

Congratulations! You have taken an active role in your own relaxation. Try this technique anytime you are feeling stressed at any time of the day. The relaxation you achieve will give you more energy, help you sleep better, increase your concentration, and reduce frustration and anger. Good luck!

Carol Ziolo, RN, LCPC

References:

Richmond, Raymond Lloyd. (2009). Progressive Muscle Relaxation.

Found online: www.GuidetoPsychology.com